there is a boss in every class
the cool one
they don’t change
they don’t get challenged.
you remember them from school?
i do!…from my class.
i kept away.
i would have been a compliant child
did what i was told to and should do
but i remember my schooldays.
there was ALWAYS one who feels an entitlement…
to be in charge…
BUT it isn’t always right!
It can lead to being cruel
being a bully…
and bullying is ugly
you hurt people
you know that you do.
the bully generally creates a gang to join them
talk in loud whispers widely
nudges and sniggers
but you KNOW inside
you KNOW you were wrong.
So what do you do when you are old enough and strong enough to recognise bullying?
- stand high and hope the crowd believe you
- divide the “group” gang momentum
- behave like an ugly. selfish person?
- call a spade a spade
- challenge the behaviour
- begin the end of the team?
- toss it completely?
- or SAY SORRY?
- imagine the feeling of RELEASE?
but then you have dug yourself into a trench so deep there IS no recovery without losing face!
Why is SORRY such a tough option??
it is certainly more attractive than being self-righteous and deliberately hurtful. you are wrong when you are wrong.
But only a strong person can SEE that and ADMIT that!
and YOU will wait til you have lost them all….
and then try clearing your conscience…